The General Rant/Bitch/Moan Thread.

I. Hate. Moving.

Nightmistress wrote:

I would really like this creepy guy to get the hint. I would love to say, "I don't want to talk to you. Your creepy as hell!" but I'm trying to be nice about it.

I agree with nsane. Men need to be told to their faces clearly, directly and with as little ambiguity as possible. They're dense. They don't get it. You need to tell him, "F*** off, weirdo". A simple, "I don't want to talk to you, please leave me alone", might also work.

Don't worry about looking or sounding like a b!tch; your safety and well-being is more important than the feelings of some random creepy jerk.

^

My right heel hurts!

My back is killing me. I think a spider bit me. I had to go to the doctor. The bite got so bad my back was tight and everytime I moved any part of my body I cried from the pain. It still really hurts but my doctor has me on 2 pain killers and one antibiotic. He wanted to lance my back but he said it is too tight for him to even think about touching it. So I have to go back in a week.

My other complaint is we have a crap load of snow. It isn't even done snowing yet. We are supposed to get 10 inches or more. I hope I don't have class tomorrow. If the roads are back I'm screwed cuz right now my car doesn't have insurance because my mom couldn't afford the bill.

Feel better, DCGG!

I just realized that I've only spent about $12 on food over the past two and a half weeks. I haven't been eating much at all... maybe the equivalent of a meal and a snack per day, or two meals sometimes... it worries me, because I normally eat a completely normal amount of food, and spend no less than $45 a week on fresh produce and such to cook with.

Today I ate three pancakes and a small dish of noodles.
Yesterday I ate two small bowls of soup and two vegan marshmallows.
The day before that I ate three oreos, a peanut butter and jam sandwich, and a packet of ramen.

Surely this cannot be good?

But I'm just not hungry much these days, so there isn't much I can do to help it...

I'm sorry that people are so cruel Vampira.
If it means anything we love you no matter what!

Last night I took all my pills like I was supposed to. I felt light headed and I kinda passed out while falling asleep. I wake up an hour later just to feel like I have really bad cotton mouth. I drank some water and my stomach felt like I had a ton of bricks in it. If I moved I felt like I was going to be sick. Matt came home from work and tried to take care of me. I end up falling asleep. I wake up to my stomach feeling better but my back was in a ton of pain again. I have a feeling until this spider bite is finished I'm going to be walking around high on pain pills all the time and then going to bed with stomach aches.

That's really sh!tty Vampira.
I hope things get sorted out for you. Or you can move on to a better job.

My co-workers are a little fed up with a certain co-worker, but nothing can be done cause her sister-in-law in the superintendent of the school board, so she will stay as long as she wants.
I'm just glad that others see how friggin' annoying she is.

Vampira132 wrote:

I broke down in front of my own dad straight after work because of some childish cliques and a manager who wont do anything about it and wont let me take work from others teams within the agency. So when I go back into work tomorrow i'll just stare at the wall and let people talk about me Would be nice to go off sick for a few weeks hehe.

Don't cry!! If Ms. D doesn't beat me to it, I'll take a vacation to the UK to kick some @$$!!

I can never understand why people think they need to make others feel low.

I hope the cyber hugs at least help you feel a little better!

Vampira132 wrote:

ravengrim wrote:

I'm sorry that people are so cruel Vampira.
If it means anything we love you no matter what!

Thank you bud

Ive complained twice to my manager about it and still nothing has been done. So after breaking down in front of my dad in the car, he said write everything down in an email to him and he will see his line manager about it all, to get some advice. She might even suggest to see the Chief manager about it. So I've wrote the email and sent it to my dad, and see what happens tomorrow.

Im just really ready to move away now and start my new life, with a nice new job!!!

That sounds like a good plan, Vampira. It also sounds like what you're going through is targeted specifically at you, which is discrimination. That's definitely not supposed to happen in the workplace, and you have the right to let supervisors know and to expect that they take action. Feel free to go up the chain of command until someone acts.

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

The snowstorm was a real let down.

We were told there was going to be inches per hour dropping.

It's all over and I barely see any on the sidewalks.

I wanted to punch my co worker in the face and I don't care that she is a senior citizen.

Vampira132 wrote:

I broke down in front of my own dad straight after work because of some childish cliques and a manager who wont do anything about it and wont let me take work from others teams within the agency. So when I go back into work tomorrow i'll just stare at the wall and let people talk about me Would be nice to go off sick for a few weeks hehe.

They should just count themselves EXTREMELY lucky that they dont live closer to me

I loathe bullying, it's a sign of insecurity and cowardice on their part and I hate how they've made you feel. Some small consolation is that I truly believe in karma and if you crap on people you will get it back no matter now long it takes

Oh and Mr D says if you need any help combating it then just ask and he has several places he can refer you to. He went ballistic when I told him!

MoonRaven wrote:

I wanted to punch my co worker in the face and I don't care that she is a senior citizen.

What's her name and where does she live?

If I kick your baddie, can you come over and kick our ex-army accounts clerk who clearly thinks he is still in the army and behaves like a total prick.

Just let me know how you get on tomorrow bud. I've been looking up discrimination law at work today as well so if you need that then just holler

And if we worked together we would NEVER get any work done but it would be a bloody brilliant time!

You're in the right, you've done nothing wrong apart from being yourself. I still say, as I've said to you before away from here, that they are jealous as hell of you because they know that you are worth a dozen of them - clique popularity is fleeting, they're all sheep who are great in a herd of them but get one of them on their own and PAH!

btw you vs. them mean them vs. US - BRING IT ON!

I just need to vent here. Why is it that the "libertarians" on the board (not this one, it's a different one) have to be such douchebags to people whom they disagree. They claim they are an oppressed minority on the board when the truth is that neither are they oppressed but are in no way a minority--if anything, they are on equal par with the liberals. You say I've switched religions to environmentalism? bullsh*t, I say it is you who have switched religions. How the f**k can you say that a species can not be over hunted? And not once have any of the liberals on the board took pot shots at any of the liberals without them having said their case. Not once have any of the liberals started telling them their arguments are bullsh*t without providing any evidence. It is these stupid "libertarians" (who I damn well know are really Conservative but hide under the guise of Libertarian because they know no one is going to take them seriously--which no one is anyways) who are the ones that are immature, even thought they keep saying that the liberals are "too young and immature." I only resort to immature frustration because you f**king c*nts can't get it through your mother f**king skulls that there are other people and life outside of your own goddamn a$$!

I've tried to be civil but they make me want to f**king kill them.

My bestest buddy at work called in sick today. Now how am I supposed to flounder away my day?! I regret showing her how to take random days off.

La Diva Carlotta wrote:

Nightmistress wrote:

I would really like this creepy guy to get the hint. I would love to say, "I don't want to talk to you. Your creepy as hell!" but I'm trying to be nice about it.

I agree with nsane. Men need to be told to their faces clearly, directly and with as little ambiguity as possible. They're dense. They don't get it. You need to tell him, "F*** off, weirdo". A simple, "I don't want to talk to you, please leave me alone", might also work.

Don't worry about looking or sounding like a b!tch; your safety and well-being is more important than the feelings of some random creepy jerk.

Thanks Diva and Nsane your both right I have to be blunt.

Yeah, I'll have to. I hate being mean to people, even when they deserve it, but he is freaking me out and isn't taking the hint. The first time I talked to him he was asking if he could come over and hang out, I told him no and told him just because we went to elementary school together doesn't mean I trust you, I don't know you. After giving up on coming over he kept talking about how he didn't have a girlfriend and he needed one.

Then a week after that he is sending me messages on Facebook saying he missed me. It really creeped me out.

^^ Yikes. Nightmistress, don't feel bad about bluntly cutting off all contact.

I weighed in at the doctor's office this morning. Suffice to say it's 10 lbs. more than I want it to be.

Everything needs to change, that's all there is to it. I want to look in the mirror and like what I see again; I want my clothes to fit as they should.

Red my lovely, if you need to lose weight then I need to hack off one of my legs!

You are gorgeous - you would be gorgeous if you were twenty or a hundred pounds heavier than you are now. Weight worries lead to issues babe and I have spent 20 years of my life trying to bury things like that